Sex Therapy

What to expect?

Sex therapy, also known as psychosexual therapy, is a type of talking therapy that focusses on issues related to sex, intimacy, sexuality, and relationships.

The first session is typically an assessment session where we explore what has brought you to therapy and whether this type of therapy is suitable for your needs. We will then have a few sessions aimed at building a bigger picture of your therapeutic goals and the different factors contributing to the difficulties you’re experiencing. This understanding will allow us to guide our therapeutic process more effectively, ensuring that it aligns with your unique needs and goals.

Following that, we will engage in a therapeutic process tailored to your specific context, which we identified in the earlier sessions. This process will often involve gentle exercises for you to try at home, helping you build new tools and skills to address the difficulties you’re experiencing. These exercises are also focussed on supporting you in connecting with yourself, your body, and your sexual needs.

Whether you choose to engage in therapy individually or attend with a partner or partners, the focus will be on supporting you in the way that feels most comfortable and right for you. Psychosexual therapy aims to empower you to reconnect with yourself and improve your sexual and relational wellbeing.

Common sexual issues

Problems with desire

Loss of desire/libido, high desire, desire differences between partners.

Erectile problems

Problems getting erections or maintaining erections.

Orgasm and ejaculation issues

Inability to orgasm, infrequent orgasms, early ejaculation, delayed ejaculation.

Pain and penetration difficulties

Pain during sex, difficulties with penetration during intercourse.

Body image issues and confidence

Difficulties with sexual confidence, body image issues impacting intimacy and relationships.

Compulsive sexual behaviours

Compulsive masturbation, sex addiction.

Sexual difficulties following medical treatments or cancer

Difficulties with sex following medical treatments.

Difficulties with sex following previous trauma

Difficulties with sex and intimacy after experiencing previous trauma.

Difficulties related to Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity

Difficulties navigating sex, sexuality, relationships, and intimacy.

Testimonials

  • "I worked with Ester to deal with areas of my life in which I felt blocked and unhappy. By the end of our time, I felt much more able to clearly ask for the things I wanted and equally importantly to say no to the things I didn’t. It was an overt worthwhile experience."

    Previous therapy client

  • "I began to work with Ester at the beginning of a new relationship and felt a hugely positive impact on our work together. Ester helped me untangle the mess of some new challenges I wasn't aware I carried in and also has given me the tools to both manage and reduce these challenges long term. I felt Ester created a non-judgmental space for me to explore these problems and my relationship improved exponentially both during and after our work together."

    Previous therapy client

  • "Ester was very learned and professional from the outset. She puts you at ease while putting together an understanding of your specific issues. Her therapeutic intervention has allowed me to view the topics of sex & relationships from angles which I wouldn't have even been aware of otherwise. No doubt they will be very useful in the future. In particular, she encouraged me to be kinder to myself, as a person."

    Previous therapy client

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