Sex Therapy

Therapy for when intimacy, sexuality, or relationships feel difficult or confusing.

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You may find yourself functioning well in many areas of life, yet feeling confused, disconnected, or dissatisfied when it comes to intimacy, relationships, or sexuality.

This might show up as pain during sex, difficulties with arousal, desire, erection, or ejaculation, or feeling disconnected from your body during intimacy. Perhaps desire feels distant or difficult, intimacy brings up anxiety or shame, or you notice the same relationship patterns repeating - even when you understand them intellectually.

Sex therapy offers space where we work specifically with sexual difficulties - understanding how emotional, relational, and bodily factors interact, while also using practical therapeutic approaches to support change.

About Sexual Difficulties

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How therapy with me works:

My approach is collaborative, relational, and trauma-informed.

I see sexual difficulties as woven into our emotions, relationships, and body, and I focus on our work being integrated rather than “treating” any issues in isolation.

I also understand the importance of both talking about sexual issues and working with practical strategies. Where appropriate, I may offer practical exercises for you to try at home between our sessions, which can support the therapeutic process. These are aways guided by what feels safe for you and what resonates with you.

How I work

Our work may include:

  • Exploring sexual difficulties such as pain, desire, erections, or orgasm concerns

  • Understanding how anxiety, stress, trauma, or relationship dynamics may contribute

  • Developing greater awareness and connection with your body and sense of safety

  • Incorporating practical exercises focused on the specific sexual difficulties you’re experiencing

  • Creating space for open conversations about how your wider life affects your sexual life and intimacy

  • Using creative approaches, such as imagery, metaphor, or art if desired

We always, always work collaboratively and at a pace that feels safe. I see this work as tender and not easy, but rewarding and empowering. 

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Testimonials

  • "Working with Ester has been transformative. Her expertise, support and compassion helped me work through vaginismus and ultimately experience pain free sex, something I wasn’t sure I would ever achieve. She created a safe, encouraging environment where I could heal at my own pace. I’m truly grateful for her guidance having grown through shame to a sense of pride in my progress."

    Previous client working through vaginismus

  • "Ester was very learned and professional from the outset. She puts you at ease while putting together an understanding of your specific issues. Her therapeutic intervention has allowed me to view the topics of sex & relationships from angles which I wouldn't have even been aware of otherwise. No doubt they will be very useful in the future. In particular, she encouraged me to be kinder to myself, as a person."

    Previous client working through understanding of sexual wants and needs

  • "I worked with Ester to deal with areas of my life in which I felt blocked and unhappy. By the end of our time, I felt much more able to clearly ask for the things I wanted and equally importantly to say no to the things I didn’t. It was an overt worthwhile experience."

    Previous client working through low desire

  • "I began to work with Ester at the beginning of a new relationship and felt a hugely positive impact on our work together. Ester helped me untangle the mess of some new challenges I wasn't aware I carried in and also has given me the tools to both manage and reduce these challenges long term. I felt Ester created a non-judgmental space for me to explore these problems and my relationship improved exponentially both during and after our work together."

    Previous client working through sexual shame

  • "Thoughtfully sensitive and calm are some of the fantastic qualities Ester brings to the table. As a therapist she builds trust quickly yet authentically and offers helpful advice and guidance to help you overcome the issues you face. She is very supportive and patient."

    Previous client working through erectile dysfunction

Sex Therapy

£100

Individual sex therapy is suited for those seeking psychosexual therapy as an individual. All sessions take place online via Zoom and are 50 minutes long.

£100

Relationship sex therapy is ideal for couples or other constellations wishing to attend therapy together. All sessions take place online via Zoom and are 50 minutes long.

Workshops and seminars are designed for organisations or group settings interested in topics related to sexuality, sexual function, and wellbeing. If you’d like to learn more, please reach out to me via the contact form below.

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